Lean into School Transitions With Confidence!

Watching your child transition between school divisions can be both exciting and nerve-wracking. As parents, you hold a powerful role in helping to make these transitions smooth and empowering experiences. So, whether your child is stepping into a classroom for the very first time or preparing to conquer high school, here's our comprehensive guide to supporting their journey.

Early Childhood: Laying the Foundation

Congratulations on this exciting milestone! Your little one is ready to take on the world of education, and you're here to guide them every step of the way. Here's how to get them off to a confident start:

Encourage Self-Reliance: Teach your child practical skills like dressing themselves, zipping up their backpack, or using the bathroom independently. These everyday tasks will boost their self-confidence and lay the groundwork for a smooth transition to classroom routines.

Master Routines: Adopt consistent sleep and mealtime schedules at home. This will give your child a sense of security essential for adapting to new environments.

Shared Reading Adventures: As the first day of school approaches, dive into engaging books to illuminate the classroom experience. Titles such as On the First Day of Kindergarten, and Kindergarten, Here I Come! will create excitement and prepare your child for what lies ahead: 

Kindergarten to Elementary School: Igniting Curiosity and Growth

Now it's time to transition from Kindergarten to Elementary School, where your child's thirst for knowledge truly blossoms:

Unveil the Magic of Storytelling: Introduce captivating stories that delve into the realm of elementary school and make the transition fun and engaging. Titles we love include Benny the Brave in the First Day Jitters, Ricky, The Rock That Couldn't Roll, and When I Meet My New Teacher 

Learn Through Play: Set up a mini classroom at home, allowing your child to embrace both the teacher and student roles. This playful activity fosters familiarity with the learning environment and foundational concepts.

Structured Mornings: Create a routine mirroring their elementary school experience. Prepping outfits, setting the table, and gathering essentials the night before ease your child into the structured rhythm of the school year.

Nurture Connections: Organize playdates and outdoor adventures for your child and their new peers. These interactions lay the groundwork for friendships, collaboration, and a sense of belonging.

Initiate Open Dialogue: Create a safe space for your child to express worries. Regularly engage in open conversations, encouraging them to share their thoughts and feelings as they naturally arise.

Embrace Shared Experiences: By recounting your own positive memories from school, you establish a relatable connection. These anecdotes reassure your child that challenges are surmountable and contribute to a sense of belonging.

Elementary to Middle School: Preparing for Preadolescence

Middle school marks a significant shift, and your support is more important than ever:

Champion Responsibility: By assigning chores and encouraging ownership of tasks, you help your child develop self-discipline and solid time management skills – the cornerstones of middle school success.

Stay Engaged: Middle school doesn't mean you should step back completely, so show your child that you value their education. To do this, maintain regular communication with teachers, participate in classroom activities, cheer from the sidelines, and attend parent-teacher conferences. 

Emotional Anchors: As social dynamics evolve, be your child's emotional rock. Your support provides a sturdy foundation as they navigate the challenges of new social dynamics and peer pressure. Teachers also appreciate parents who provide a robust support system at home.

Middle to High School: Entering a Grown-up World

High school is a pivotal period that sets the stage for future endeavors. Here's how you can help with this transformative transition and build resilience at home:

Encourage Independence & Advocacy: High school requires students to take more responsibility for their education. Equip your child with self-advocacy skills, encouraging them to seek help and make informed decisions about classes and activities.

Mastering Time Management: High school brings an increased workload. Help your child develop effective time management strategies to balance academics, extracurricular activities, and personal time. Encourage them to use calendars and planners to stay organized.

Unearth Passions: Encourage your child to explore different subjects and extracurriculars. High school is the perfect time to discover their passions and pave the way for future endeavors.

In Conclusion

As your child progresses through various school stages, your support remains essential. From fostering self-reliance to encouraging independence, the parental role evolves. Remember to collaborate with teachers, maintain an open flow of communication with your child, and actively engage in their education. Together, you can navigate these transitions smoothly for an optimal educational journey.

At Keating Quigley, we understand the importance of these transitions and are here to support you. Our experienced team can partner with you at any stage of your child's development, helping you make informed decisions and find the best-fit schools to ensure your child's growth and success. Cheers to a future filled with growth and endless possibilities!

Written By Verona Keating & Jacquie Quigley | Founding Partners | Keating Quigley Educational Consultants

From Flip Flops to Pencils: How to Navigate Back-to-School Blues!

As the sun sets on the lazy, hazy days of summer, it's time to embrace the dawn of the new academic year. To help your child approach the year ahead with a confident and optimistic mindset, we’ve compiled a comprehensive list of back-to-school steps you can implement at home.

So, while summer memories still linger, let's explore ways to navigate the joys and challenges of returning to school. Here’s to smooth transitions - and a school year packed with transformative opportunities. Enjoy the closing days of summer!

Tips for a Stress-Free Re-entry

1. Harness Positivity: Your child takes cues from you, so engage your child in positive conversations about the new school year. If you exhibit excitement and positivity, they are likelier to do the same.

2. Encourage Expression: Encourage your child to share their feelings and experiences about school openly. Discuss their interests, expectations, and any concerns they might have. 

3. Visit Campus: For younger children or students transitioning to a new school, visiting the campus a few days before the academic year starts can alleviate anxiety.

4. Organize and Label Supplies Together: Make a fun activity out of organizing and labeling school supplies and uniforms/clothing. Let your child express creativity by personalizing their items with stickers or markers.

5. Read Books: Reading books that explore the adventures of starting school can help children relate to the experience. Here are a few favorites to check out:

   • Homeroom Diaries by James Patterson (Age 12+)

   • New Kid by Jerry Craft (Age 9-12)

   • First Day Jitters by Julie Danneberg (Age 5-8)

   • Time For School, Little Blue Truck by Alice Schertle (Age 2-4)

6. Connect with Classmates: Reach out to the parents of your child's classmates and arrange a playdate before school starts. Familiar faces on the first day can make all the difference.

7. Adjust the Routine Gradually: Start changing bedtimes and morning routines a week before school starts. Gradually shifting back to the school schedule will make the first week of class far less overwhelming.

Looking ahead…

1. Set Realistic Goals: Help your child set achievable goals for the new school year. Whether improving grades, joining a club, or making new friends, having clear objectives can boost motivation. This is particularly important for High Schoolers.

2. Accentuate the Positive: Encourage your child to focus on the positive aspects of school, like reuniting with friends or participating in exciting extracurricular activities. For High Schooler students, discuss the importance of maintaining a positive attitude and staying persistent in their efforts. 

3. Stay Organized: Use planners or apps to keep track of assignments, projects, and important dates. An organized approach reduces stress and helps children manage their time effectively.

4. Celebrate Achievements: Acknowledge and celebrate your child's accomplishments, no matter how small. Positive reinforcement boosts confidence and encourages further success.

5. Encourage Risk Taking: Stress the importance of embracing challenges and new experiences as opportunities to learn and grow. Mistakes are a natural part of the learning process.

6. Balance Academics and Extracurriculars: Strike a balance between work and play. Remind your Middle and High Schoolers, that while it's important to do their best academically, it’s also essential to make time for extracurricular activities they're passionate about.

7. Practice Self-Care: High school can be stressful, so it’s important that your student takes care of themself physically and emotionally. Make sure they are getting enough sleep, eating healthily, and finding time for activities that bring them joy and relaxation.

Embrace Growth, Learning, and Friendship

So, as the new academic year approaches, let's usher in all the potential it offers with open arms and hearts; it’s teeming with opportunities for endless growth, enriched academic experiences, and lasting friendships. 

And remember, if you're planning to embark on a day or boarding school search this fall, KQ is here to guide you. We provide all the expert support and assistance you need for a smooth and successful admissions process. Email or call for help, and together, we'll pave the way for a bright future for your child. Happy learning!

Written By Verona Keating & Jacquie Quigley | Founding Partners | Keating Quigley Educational Consultants

Balance Fun & Learning This Summer

Are you looking for ways to keep your children's minds sharp while still having fun this summer? As a responsible parent, you value balancing learning and leisure.

To help you make the most of your child's summer experiences and avoid the dreaded academic slide, below are some useful tips on intertwining learning with everyday experiences, regardless of your child’s age or the activity.

Embark on Exciting Volunteering Adventures

Encouraging your children to volunteer is an excellent way to teach them about empathy, community, and the impact of their actions. You can plan a family outing to a nearby food shelter where they can lend a helping hand and experience the joy of assisting others. This kind of activity will help them understand the value of giving back while building their teamwork and communication abilities. Moreover, it's an opportunity to create unforgettable memories as a family.

Acquire Essential Life Skills with a Job 

Encouraging your teenager to get a summer job can have multiple benefits. It can help them recognize their strengths and weaknesses and improve vital communication, organization, and time management skills. A seasonal job also allows teens to experience the concept of teamwork and make new friends. And by earning and managing their own money, they will learn about financial responsibility. 

Unleash Your Child's Inner Explorer at Summer Camp

Summer camp offers many opportunities for kids to have a blast while learning new skills. Whether it's a sport, art, or science camp, children can engage in hands-on activities that foster their interests and boost creativity. Encourage them to share their experiences with you, allowing them to reflect on what they've learned and develop storytelling abilities.

Discover the Thrills of Backyard Escapades

Transform your backyard into a treasure trove of learning adventures! Create a mini-garden to teach your children about plants, insects, and the marvels of nature. Motivate them to maintain a nature journal depicting and detailing findings. With activities ranging from observing birds and butterflies to planting seeds and monitoring their growth, the backyard offers limitless opportunities for scientific exploration.

Unlock their Inner Chef with Kitchen Creations

The kitchen is a haven for learning disguised as fun. You can involve your child in baking or cooking activities where they can practice math skills by measuring ingredients or following recipes. Encourage them to be creative with flavors and textures. Not only will they develop a taste for culinary arts, but they'll also learn about nutrition, teamwork, and problem-solving!

Foster the Joy of Beach Reading

A day at the beach is the perfect opportunity to indulge in reading adventures, so why not suggest they pack their favorite books? Create cozy reading spots with blankets and beach chairs, and let their imaginations soar as they dive into captivating stories. Discussing the books they read will enhance comprehension skills and expand vocabulary.

Create Lasting Memories with Grandma

Spending time with grandparents or extended family is a source of joy and a treasure trove of wisdom and shared experiences. Plan sleepovers at Grandma's, where children can learn about their family’s past, participate in storytelling, and even try their hand at an old family recipe. Encourage them to ask questions and actively listen to the stories shared by grandparents or loved ones. These cherished moments create strong connections while building an appreciation of family heritage.

In Conclusion: Find a Happy Balance

As parents, it is essential to balance fun and learning for children over the summer months. By intertwining education with everyday experiences, parents can ensure that children continue to grow intellectually while making unforgettable memories. From volunteering and summer camp adventures to backyard explorations, kitchen creations, beach reading, and family sleepovers, the opportunities for fun-filled learning experiences are endless. 

For more ideas on avoiding the summer slide, check out our blog called Want to avoid the summer slide? Here's How. 

Here’s to a happy summer full of adventures that combines excitement, growth, and the joy of learning!

Written By Keating Quigley | Educational Consultants

Rising seniors: Get Ahead This Summer!

As the academic year draws to a close, rising seniors are contemplating ways to make the most of their downtime, delve deeper into their college search, and simultaneously savor the carefree days of summer.

Every student's journey is unique, but it's important to have a strong and structured plan in place, no matter what their individual focus may be. As summer approaches and the planning begins, here are some helpful tips to help rising seniors get the most out of their summer and guide them toward success:

Volunteer or intern: Engaging in volunteer work or an internship within a desired field is an advantageous way to acquire valuable experience and cultivate new skill sets.

Get a job: A summer job not only provides valuable work experience that looks good on a resume, but it also helps to broaden horizons.

Prepare for standardized tests: If your child plans to take the SAT or ACT in the fall, they should use the summer to prepare and take practice tests.

Work on a resume: To save time in the fall, rising seniors should make the most of the summer months by dedicating time to refining their resumes to include work experience, leadership roles, community service commitments, accolades, etc.

Explore extracurricular activities: The summer provides an excellent opportunity to explore new extracurricular pursuits, such as joining a sports team or taking up a new hobby.

Start tracking activities and achievements: The activities log is an important but time-consuming part of the Common Application. The summer provides the perfect opportunity for students to reflect on their activities and accomplishments since freshman year and organize them in a spreadsheet. This will save time when submitting applications in the fall.

Visit colleges: If your child is still unsure about which schools to apply to, visiting college campuses during the summer is a helpful way to narrow down options and start finalizing the school list. It’s also fun to spend one-on-one time with your child, so get those playlists and snacks ready for the open road!

Get a head start on the Common App essay: One of the most important pieces of advice we give our students is to begin working on the Common App essay before the demanding workload of senior year begins. Check out our recent blog, It's College Essay Season: Let's Get It Done!, for detailed information. In the meantime, here are some suggestions for crafting a solid first draft:

• Break the piece down into manageable chunks

• Generate ideas through brainstorming

• Take it step-by-step to make it less overwhelming

• Write rough drafts

• Take breaks to refresh the mind

• Seek out constructive feedback and encouragement

• Reach out for additional assistance if necessary

KQ: a Helping Hand

If your rising senior is in need of help with their Personal Statement this summer - or any aspect of the college admissions process - KQ is here to lend a hand. Please contact us via email or phone to schedule a consultation. 

Written By Verona Keating & Jacquie Quigley | Co-founders | Keating Quigley Educational Consultants

Rolling Admissions: There’s still time

Each year, right about now we receive calls from concerned parents. The most common refrain is, 'My child started the school year on a positive note, BUT….' 

Lurking behind the BUT lies explanations of how their child is not feeling challenged at school, they have lost their love of learning, their grades have dropped precipitously, they feel invisible, they have fallen between the cracks, or they are experiencing social-emotional challenges.

Other times, we hear from parents who recently learned they are relocating and as a result, are scrambling to figure out their child's educational options for the coming school year.

No matter the circumstances, parents ask if a move to a private day or boarding school is even feasible at this late stage in the academic calendar. Our answer to this question is invariably a resounding maybe. To move this maybe to the yes column, we encourage parents to ask themselves these probing questions:

• What factors are in play?

• What is their child's learning style?

• Is this the right move for their child right now? And in the longer term? 

• Are the schools on their list in sync with their personal philosophy of education?

• Should they wait until next year in order to have more options?

So, if you are considering submitting a late application to an independent day or boarding school, read on for an overview of the rolling admissions landscape to get you on your way. 

First off, what are rolling admissions?

Rolling admissions is a process certain independent day and boarding schools use to enroll students after the initial round of acceptances is complete, allowing them to fill any remaining spots quickly and efficiently.

Schools typically review rolling admissions applications on a first-come, first-served basis and expedite applications accordingly. This practice can be beneficial to families who fall into the categories above. 

Each school may approach rolling admissions differently, so we impress on parents the importance of researching the specific policies of each school under consideration. Furthermore, we point out that while the rolling admissions timeline can be shorter, candidates are still required to complete the same components as first-round applicants (i.e., inquiry, application, interview, student visit day, testing, student essays) before a file can be reviewed. To this end, the Admissions Committee still needs to convene to assess each candidate before making a decision. 

The pros & cons

Like any admissions process, there are benefits and pitfalls involved in rolling admissions. Below are some of the most common:

Pros:

• Flexibility: Rolling admissions allows families to apply to schools even after the first-round deadline has lapsed.

• Shorter decision lead times: Rolling admissions can result in quicker admissions decisions.

• Reduced stress: Families often enjoy a more personal, streamlined admissions experience.

Cons:

• Available spots: Some schools may have already met enrollment goals for the coming year, making it less predictable that spots will be available in their child's grade.

• Competition: Students compete for limited spots, which can be challenging if the school is particularly selective.

• Limited possibilities: Not all schools offer rolling admissions, which can ultimately limit enrollment options and impact the educational 'fit.' 

What about financial aid?

Private schools with rolling admissions may offer financial aid to eligible families. Here are some factors to bear in mind:

• Available FA funds: Financial aid budgets may already have been allocated during the first round of acceptances. We, therefore, encourage parents to be transparent about their need for support from the get-go. 

• Apply early: We recommend applying for financial aid as early as possible to give the school more time to review the application and determine aid eligibility.

• Understand the process: Each school may have a specific process for awarding financial aid, so we urge parents to read the school's instructions carefully and follow them closely to ensure the application is complete.

• Be realistic: Not all families will qualify for financial aid, and the amount of aid awarded may vary depending on income, assets, and family size. 

So how do i move forward?

While it is definitely not too late to consider an independent day or boarding school application for this fall, we encourage parents to consider the following before committing to the rolling admissions process:

• Be able to articulate the reasons behind the decision to apply. 

• Understand the child's needs.

• Does the school offer the right fit for the child and family?

• Check with each school to understand specific policies and availability. 

• Is it best to apply now for the fall or wait until next year?

• Does the school still have financial aid dollars available?

If you answer all of these questions and still want to move forward with the process, please email or call Keating Quigley. With years of expertise behind us, we are always happy to listen, advise and guide you!

Written By Keating Quigley | Educational Consultants

The Two E’s of Summer Boarding School: Enrichment and Exploration

Now that winter is almost behind us, have you thought about your child’s summer plans? This is a great time to build their student profile. So, why not give them the opportunity to cultivate their passion for discovery, dive deep into academic exploration, hone a talent or try something new, and make lifelong friendships?

Consider these four reasons why a summer boarding school program might make sense for your child:

Academics: Explore a passion or try something new

As we know, students come in all shapes and sizes. Accordingly, there is a wide range of summer boarding school programs out there to meet their varied needs. Courses range from academic enrichment, foundational skill strengthening, transformative academic support and test prep. 

Signature Programs: Delve into a favorite subject

Whether your child is an aspiring science buff, a Picasso in the making, the next Oscar-winning actor or a wannabe Elon Musk, there’s a program out there! Expansive offerings cover topics such as environmental science, leadership, humanities, robotics, theater, dance, music, engineering, math acceleration, coding and so much more.

Athletics: Take skills to new heights

Does your child have game? Then why not help them improve their skills whether it’s perfecting their batting stance, fine tuning their jump shot, getting their speed into high gear or increasing their overall athletic prowess? There are extraordinary options to choose from that offer expert instruction and state-of-the-art-facilities.

Cultural Exploration: Cultivate New horizons

All boarding school summer programs offer students an exciting and immersive opportunity to live amongst a community of friends from around the world. At the same time, they learn from dedicated and experienced faculty members who share their expertise and passion. And if your child is considering boarding school as a long term option, it is a great way for them to test drive campus life to see if it’s a good fit. 

What’s next?

With so many choices out there, let us help you find the best program for your child this summer. Time is of the essence as spots fill up fast, so contact us soon to learn more about the endless possibilities!

Written By Keating Quigley | Educational Consultants